Isn’t It Odd…

that nearly all of the dozens of people I chat with on Facebook are male?

that most are widowers with one beloved child?

that these widowers work overseas (usually military men or engineers) and their beloved child is in school in the states

that their child gets in some kind of trouble and ends up in a hospital needing several thousand dollars for surgery 

that their fathers want me to send money. To help their child.

I don't begrudge their child the cash, of course, but I do send it directly to the hospital, not to the father.